I’m In The Mood, Why Aren’t You?


My Husband Can’t Keep Up With Me

These days, I see an increasing number of married women who complain that they are much more interested in sex than their husbands are ? that their men just don’t have enough sexual energy. Read more

What To Do When You’re Mismatched Lovers

A great many men and women wait for inspiration “the perfect mood” to strike before they engage in sex. The problem is that the “magic moment” rarely comes, so they hardly have sex at all. Read more

A Touching Experience

The new exercise I gave Gwynne and Jack is appropriate for any couple in a similar situation, or for happy couples who want to expand their sensual enjoyment of each other. The idea is to take turns touching and being touched ? and that’s all. Read more

Why Don’t We Do This More Often?

A couple’s inability to “get started” is the greatest single cause of that scourge of married life, sexual infrequency. Many men and women say that once things “get rolling”, they have no trouble responding. Read more

Get Off The Sexual Seesaw

Brenda and Louis were on a sexual seesaw. In this dangerous game, which can last a week or a month or an entire marriage, one partner does not want sex because the other does. Scores are being settled; sexual slights are being paid back. Refusing sex becomes a power play: “If you can say no, so can I.” Read more

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